My first mentoring

I had a mentor very early in my career who set the course for my future in Engineering. 

This man was respected Engineer and Architect.  

I was young, and slightly intimidated. 

I had never had a mentor before. 

I had no idea how this relationship was supposed to work. 

I actually only met with him once as a specific “Mentoring meeting” 

I clearly remember sitting in his office.  

I remember the layout of his furniture and the wood grain on his table. 

But I only remember one thing that he said to me.  

He told me that I have a choice to make.  

I could be tall and narrow, or short and wide.  

Both paths would bring me success, but I had to choose early. 

I could become a subject matter expert and know more than anyone else. 

Be the guy that everyone goes to for that one thing. 

Or I could be the jack of all trades. 

Learn everything I can about everything I come in contact with. 

I left the office thinking yeah, that’s a good point. 

There are things that I am very good at. 

I would love to be “The Master” 

I would love to garner the respect that I see the subject matter experts get. 

I knew specific people at IBM who were the best in the World, and everyone knew it. 

The more I thought about it, the more I realized that was not me.  

Later that evening, I realized that was not who I am. 

I am the person who needs to know the stack from top to bottom. 

I have to see the big picture. 

At that moment my entire future career unfolded before my eyes. 

I would take all of the disciplines and bring them together. 

That is where invention lives. 

That is where solutions come from. 

At that moment, an Architect was born.